She Says No (It Means Not Yet)
No never means yes, this post is not a permission for misconduct. However so many times women are sending signals that mean yes but verbally are saying no. When a woman says “no” I suggest to hear it...
View ArticleSuccessful Second Date
I get asked how to have a successful second date almost more often than I get questions about the first date. There is a lot to be confused about really. What do you talk about on the second date? Most...
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Just Released! – Dating Decoded – Audio Workshop
Dating Decoded – Audio Workshop Learn all the steps you need to know in this one program. This is the place to start to take control back of your dating life. Know what to say and what to do from...
View ArticleShe is “The One”
The most destructive thought in a man’s head after he meets a girl is “She might be THE ONE.” Oh don’t laugh, I guarantee you have had that thought recently yourself. Sure it might mask itself as “Wow...
View ArticleAndy Anderson – EnlightenmentDating.Com
This is a Tele-seminar I did with Andy Anderson over at Social Chemistry: Listen in as I cover the Learn the secrets of creating deeper attraction. Beyond playful banter and teasing there is a deeper...
View ArticleGuest on TheSocialMan.com Podcast
I’ve teamed up with an old friend Christian who used to be an instructor with me back in the day and was a guest on their podcast over at TheSocialMan.com Check out their podcast on Qualifying and...
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Art of Flirting Session Starts Soon!
If you live in the Bay Area it is time to make a commitment to success! Learn how to dramatically improve your dating skills in just 90 days. Over this 3-month period we’ll work together in both group...
View ArticleCome out from under your rock! How to Stay Confident.
Dating is a pain in the ass sometimes, I’ll admit it. No matter how good at it you are it is still a process of sorting out the idiots from the keepers. Whether you are looking for something casual or...
View Article5 Tips For Being Assertive
Being assertive is showing you are a Man! Women are tired of us pansy ass “nice guys” who are afraid of them. It is time to step up your assertiveness and show you are a man! 1. Order for her without...
View ArticleTop 5 Body Language Mistakes in Dating
I find the most asked about topic with guys is body language. Nothing scares us more than knowing we are communicating something but not knowing what it is. The physical part of a woman’s brain that...
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From Geek to Sleek: Lose 20 lbs of Fat in one month!
[media id=4] So I have to admit I have never been on a diet in my life. The whole idea of depriving myself sounds agonizing. I would rather try to eat healthier and get more active. However the pounds...
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How to Create Deep Emotional Attraction – Tele-Workshop
Open Spaces Available for Emotional Attraction Tele-Workshop There are 5 spots available on this sundays 1.5 hr Tele-Workshop on Relating and Deep Emotional Attraction. This Month’s Topic is: Emotional...
View ArticleNever be a Pushover Again
Damn, nothing is hotter than a woman with a sword. That outfit isn’t bad either, gotta love ladies armor fashion these days. As she approaches she smiles and is about to profess what you hope will be...
View ArticleHow to start a conversation with guys
I think it might just be more intimidating to start a conversation with a guy in a social situation like a bar or party than it is a woman. Unless you are gay you probably don’t think about ways to go...
View ArticleUsing Charisma to Get What You Want!
Listen in on the half hour radio show I was a guest on Charisma Live! Edward Brown is a fellow coach focusing on Executive Coaching over at Core Edge Consulting at www.core-edge.com Tune in as we talk...
View ArticleInterview at Seductionlist.com
This last week I was interviewed on the SeductionList.com podcast we where I shared my advice on pickup, dating, and conversation skills. Here are some of the subjects we covered in the interview: How...
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Have A Response to Anything!
TeleWorkshop 10/25 4:00PST $27.00 How do you answer these from a girl?: “Will you buy me a drink?” “Are you hitting on me?” “We are lesbians” “Fuck off!” Learn in our interactive Tele-workshop just how...
View ArticleDating Mistakes: Repeating Her
No single mistake can ruin an interaction or a date faster than this, and you have probably been doing it for years! I know when I first started to uncover the secrets to better conversation with women...
View ArticlePodcast: The Business of Charisma
Edward from Core Edge Consulting and I sit down to talk about Making Charisma your Business. However don’t let the topic fool you there are some great tips for understanding how to increase your...
View ArticleQnA
I’ve recently joined up with the guys over at http://www.thesocialman.com and started doing some workshops for them. Never fear i’m still running my own business independantly here as well. Christian...
View ArticleGetting a Date on the Phone – When she doesn’t commit
Q: What is the deal with women who won’t commit on the phone? Why did she answer if she doesn’t want to go out with me? This is an interesting question. I have seen this a few times from women in my...
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How to Avoid the #1 Turn Off for Women: Neediness
Tele-Workshop 1/31 11am PST How to Avoid the #1 Turn Off for Women: Neediness Learn the 4 ways you are communicating a Needy Vibe that you aren’t even aware of! Destroy Every Trace of the Needy Vibe so...
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3 Dates to Success – The First Date
Learn how to have success with women in 3 dates. Part 1 gives first date advice and first date tips.
View Article3 Dates to Success – The Second Date
Learn how to have success with women in 3 dates. Part 2 gives second date advice and second date tips.
View Article3 Dates to Success – The Third Date
Learn how to have success with women in 3 dates. Part 3 gives third date advice and third date tips. The third date is the date that often leads to sex, make sure you know what to do!
View ArticleLive in Fear – The last 4 Weeks
The Final Kill – Victory Team ShadowWarriors - StreetWars Tournament As we leave the Shadow Government’s safe house after consuming mass amounts of drugs, porn, and declaring exactly how to best make...
View ArticleHow To Be a Creepy Guy
Master the fine art of being creepy! Shun your confidence and discover with me the five things you can do to instantly creep someone out! 1. Listen to that voice in your head saying “that sounds...
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Online Dating Rules – From an OKcupid Lady
I saw this list of rules from a member on OKcupid that I thought were actually pretty spot on: The DO’s and DON’T of online dating, if you are looking for a quality female: -DO send an email that...
View ArticleBelize Trip
Off to Belize I go. I’ll be completely out of contact until the end of February. Catch you all when I return! Dan M Charismatips.com
View ArticleInspire connection
There is a spark that happens in meeting someone that is almost unexplainable; that moment when you “see” someone on a deeper level and they “see” you. The human yearning to be understood and validated...
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The Art of Storytelling – 6/13 TeleWorkshop
Be Interesting! – Never have boring conversation again! Grab interest from the very start Make even boring conversation Interesting Avoid the #1 mistake guys make in conversation Let even short...
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How to not be needy!
Currently I am dating a phenomenal woman that has turned the world upside down on my thoughts about the chase and balance of interest. She seems to break the rules with impunity, not just avoiding...
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$55/wk In-Person Coaching Program in SF (8 weeks)
NEW – 8 Week Group/In-Person Coaching Program in San Francisco Commit to making a change that will last! Become confident in your ability to meet and choose who you want to date! Feel secure knowing...
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Can you help?
I am completely freaked out and scared, yet so excited about this! My first invention, the Ninja Standing Desk is about to go live on Kickstarter.com (crowd funding website where you can pre-order it)....
View ArticleInformation Sabatoge
I love information. I love to learn. These are wonderful traits that you may also share. They served me well in school when the goal was absorbing tons of information and spitting it back out on the...
View ArticleWhen you need a break
In my last post I wrote about the importance of taking action to improve your dating and social life. We both know that sometimes we need to take a break from facing our most challenging or...
View ArticleHow to meet women during your daily routine
If you’re reading this post I’m sure you say that you want to meet more high quality women. Do you really make yourself open to this happening though? Here are some steps to take TODAY to be more...
View ArticleYour limiting beliefs are probably BS
When I was new at this stuff I had all sorts of fears and beliefs about what was not possible. I was pretty darn sure that if I just walked up to a woman out of the blue on the sidewalk and told her...
View ArticleFree feedback on your dating skills!
Unfortunately we can’t have social skills experts watching each interaction and giving us feedback. You can get a little closer to this though! When I was learning how to start conversations with women...
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Eye contact – Are you making enough?
If you consider yourself even slightly shy around women you’re attracted to, chances are you’re probably missing out on the benefits of making more eye contact. I remember hearing an author on body...
View ArticleHow to keep your social engine warm
It’s way easier to start talking with a sexy woman when you’re already in a social mood. Get in the flow by having conversations throughout your day with everyone who interests you, not just the “hot...
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Are you where the women are?
This is an important question I ask myself and clients when we’re currently not meeting as many interesting women as we’d like. Let’s examine the example of grocery shopping. This is an awesome...
View ArticleDo you talk too much?
“Wow! What an awesome deal,” I thought as I reviewed an advertisement for an apartment share. I was on the search for a new place to live and excited that this could be an excellent fit. I quickly...
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Women Like Risks
This is how an awesome young woman put it so well. A little while ago I sat down next to this gorgeous young woman sitting along in a club. She was waiting for her sister to rejoin her and had to...
View ArticleBeing Vulnerable
Many cultures tell us to “keep a stiff upper lip,” “don’t air your dirty laundry in public,” and generally portray a polished front to the world that shows everything is perfect about ourselves and our...
View ArticleVulnerability In Action
As promised in my last post, here are some examples of creating deeper connection through vulnerability. These are loosely based on real life interactions I’ve had. (Text in parenthesis represents my...
View ArticleThe Flow of Vulnerability
Related to my last two posts, it’s important to point out that there needs to be a balanced flow when you are increasing the vulnerability with another person. It needs to be a gradual progression of...
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